It is not possible for our every wish to be fulfilled. We don’t get what we want in life, it’s not necessary. Because man gets something in life according to his desires by the grace of the Almighty.
But we basically travel to every destination of ingratitude very quickly. When we have success in life, we are busy with the next endeavor. When Allah bestows a blessing on us, the sense of its importance disappears in our heart and then we begin to spend our days longing for more. Basically we are expecting to get everything that our heart thinks. This is contrary to the laws of nature.
Success is basically the name of achieving everything. We always live in the misconception that we have all the comforts and conveniences of life. And if that happens, we consider it a success. But take a look at the biographies of all the successful people. They have not been given this success on the plate, nor do they have access to all the benefits of life. Imagine for a second you were transposed into the karmic driven world of Bill Gates, the richest man in the world. But even after this level of success, they still face problems in their married life.
We want peace in relationships and consider it a success. When this is possible, our hearts are not satisfied. He makes a good job or position the center of success. Even if Shumai’s fate is such, we consider the railroad of wealth as a new ladder of success and try to climb it. Suppose this is possible, then after the onset of wealth, if you suffer from health problems, the only success you will see is a healthy life. Turn the wheel around for a moment. You were living a healthy life on the first step when there was peace in all relationships. But your heart is not ready to stop. Of course life is the name of fluency but on the other hand life is also the name of contentment. Satisfying yourself with what you have and trying to improve your quality of life is a good thing. Constant effort is the identity of noble creatures. But this constant We must be thankful for what we have in our endeavors. But we are unable to do so and weep over the failure of our lives. However, where we are not able to imagine our life as successful, thousands of people are living a contented life.
Our hopes motivate us to move forward in life. But sometimes these hopes become a major obstacle to our success. Unnecessary hopes take us away from our destination and start cultivating jealousy, hatred, lust in our hearts. And we start irrigating these plants imperceptibly. And as we watch, these social attitudes become tenacious trees. And this is where the journey of our life begins. Instead of trying to balance our hopes, gains and present, we consider it a success to run headlong like a stubborn horse. Expectations and hopes are two rivers that can never meet. But it is our success to maintain such a balance between them as the two banks of a river never meet, but neither side is complete without the other, and as soon as the river is formed, it is joined by these two banks. One of the biggest causes of trouble in life is ours Expectations have to surpass our expectations. Hope is a light, but unrealistic expectations are like a pitch darkness that causes the light to fade.
Moderation, contentment, striving for success but not letting expectations overwhelm you are the hallmarks of a successful life. We associate the success of life with the success of others and make our lives hell. If we make it a habit to do our best by sincerely appreciating the success of others, then not only a positive attitude will start to develop in the society but also positive changes will start taking place in our caste. As a whole, why do I have it and why don’t I have it? It is licking us like termites. We can only hope that our efforts will put us in the same position. But setting expectations that make us jealous can lead to our downfall.
Negative change in our behavior not only deprives us of success but also other units of the society connected to us begin to suffer. As a result, family problems, business confusions, and psychiatric disorders begin to grow, and their growth leads to the destruction of society.
Where the effort stops, life becomes like a still lake where moss begins to stink. But in this endeavor, if negative attitudes prevail, we will succeed in life even if we want to. The key to success in life is to make expectations a beacon. But don’t try to figure out beforehand that our every hope will come true.